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Ladies en pointe: because ballet has no age limit

In a little dance studio on Northbourne Avenue, the wondrous world of ballet is taught to women of all ages, sizes, and skill โ€“ every body is welcome.  

Linda Willington, 52, and Sophie Chalk, 47, are later-in-life dancers who decided to take a leap of faith and sautรฉ into an adult-only dance studio to finally live out their childhood dreams. Itโ€™s been a few years now for both women since they first laced up their ballet slippers and put their hair in a bun, and they say itโ€™s one of the best decisions theyโ€™ve ever made.

The stereotypical ballerina image is of a skinny, gorgeous, young woman, and thereโ€™s nothing wrong with that. But these Canberra women are ballerinas in their own right, and theyโ€™re proud to pliรฉ, slide on their ballet shoes, and relevรฉ at the barre, each and every week.

โ€œIโ€™ve always wanted to do ballet. My daughter danced from three to 18 and I was a dance mum on the side, always a bit jealous and just paying all the money,โ€ laughed Linda.

โ€œI knew about the adult studio, 6th Position, and just never had the guts to do it, and then it was offered online when we went into lockdown. So, I just started in my garage at home, and then braved it to the studio when we came out.

โ€œBefore my first class, I was so nervous because of my age, because of my body shape โ€ฆ I was very nervous.โ€

Not having quite the same motivation as Linda, Sophie mainly chose to begin classes simply for her fitness.  

โ€œI did have a love of ballet. I read a lot of comic books about it when I was little but Iโ€™d been looking for adult only classes for a number of years because I think itโ€™s nice to be fit,โ€ Sophie said.

โ€œSo, in the beginning it was more for a physical workout and then the more I got into it, the more I enjoyed it.

โ€œMy first class? Well โ€ฆ I survived. I didnโ€™t cry, I didnโ€™t fall over, and it was fun! There was no expectation, I didnโ€™t want to be a ballerina or anything, I just wanted to work out.โ€

Neither aspires to being a star, but both say their improved wellbeing is what keeps them coming back.

โ€œIt was 100 per cent the stereotype of ballerinas which stopped me from starting ballet. Ballet when I was younger was very regimented and not fun at all. You were told how hopeless you were and youโ€™re not going to make it, so why are you even bothering,โ€ Linda said.

โ€œBut the teachers here just make you laugh, and you have a laugh at yourself. Itโ€™s not about becoming a prima ballerina, not at all.

โ€œI keep coming back because I just love it so much. Itโ€™s an hour and a half where the music is beautiful, itโ€™s nice to get dressed up, and you just feel good.โ€

Sophieโ€™s favourite part of the class is the barre exercises, and she says itโ€™s dramatically improved her mental health.

โ€œI like being at the barre because itโ€™s me time. Me and myself, and how it feels being in the present. Having that moment of silence in your life is so precious,โ€ Sophie said.

โ€œYou have to really feel and listen to whatโ€™s going on around you rather than worry about the future or the outside world.โ€

โ€œJust do it, just be brave. Iโ€™ve gotten to the age now where I donโ€™t really care about what other people think, and I used to care a lot.โ€

With a community of supportive teachers and like-minded peers, Sophie and Linda have gained a new level of confidence they never thought possible.

โ€œThe challenge of my life is to do a pirouette and I just canโ€™t get there!โ€ chuckled Linda.

โ€œI just said to my ballet teacher โ€˜am I ever going to get this?โ€™ and she went โ€˜I donโ€™t knowโ€™, and we laughed. She tries so hard each week, but โ€ฆโ€ she shrugged.

Sophie and Linda have both performed in one concert, hosted by 6th Position, with tutus, lights, and stage makeup โ€“ the whole experience.

โ€œThat was pretty scary. I was hesitant to do it, but I just went โ€˜oh well, why not?โ€™โ€ revealed Linda.

โ€œOthers did it as well and we just supported each other. It was my first time performing ballet on a stage.โ€

Sophie has signed up for her second concert this year in October, and sheโ€™s working on getting Linda to sign up again with her โ€ฆ and sheโ€™s almost been convinced.

โ€œI was absolutely proud of myself stepping off that stage. It was just so much fun, and it wasnโ€™t just the performance, it was the whole backstage stuff and all the practice,โ€ Linda smiled.

โ€œMy daughter actually came to see the concert and she rejoined ballet after it. Sheโ€™s 26 now, dancing four to five times a week, sheโ€™s back on her pointe shoes, and she said to me that in that time in between she was trying to find a sport that she fit into. As soon as she came back to ballet, she was home.

โ€œItโ€™s inspired her, and itโ€™s really beautiful to see her dancing again, and she just loves it. She buys a new leotard probably every week.โ€

Walking like a penguin from the pain after her first class didnโ€™t dampen Sophieโ€™s spirit, and she has even gained the courage to take trapeze lessons.

To any adult with a yearning to learn how to tie their ribbons and give ballet a go, but believes their time has passed, Sophie and Linda have some words of encouragement.  

โ€œItโ€™s never too late! Here, most of us just really want to enjoy ourselves. Itโ€™s opened up a window and, yes, an old dog can learn new tricks,โ€ Sophie said.

โ€œEven if youโ€™re an adult, you can still dance at the highest level of your own potential.

โ€œIf you try it, at least you know if itโ€™s working for you or not. But if you donโ€™t try it, then youโ€™ve 100 per cent failed. Thatโ€™s what Iโ€™ve learnt.โ€

โ€œJust do it, just be brave. Iโ€™ve gotten to the age now where I donโ€™t really care about what other people think, and I used to care a lot,โ€ smiled Linda.  

โ€œIโ€™d absolutely recommend people do ballet. If youโ€™ve got that desire, then just do it! Give it a go always โ€“ thereโ€™s nothing wrong with trying something.

โ€œThatโ€™s one reason why Iโ€™m doing this article, because I want people to just try it. Donโ€™t be scared. Ballet doesnโ€™t have an age limit. Not at all.โ€

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